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ARE ZACH AND CORY STILL FRIENDS?

2015.04.25 15:30 ShortySwords ARE ZACH AND CORY STILL FRIENDS?

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2013.10.12 11:37 CaptainCupcakez Jontron's Hat

Are Jon and Jon's hat still friends?
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2016.01.02 05:38 tohighforthisritenow happycowgifs

Gifs of happy cows
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2023.03.22 16:05 collegeThrowaray2023 Going to fail all my college classes for this semester.

Throwaway, I guess. I'm probably going to fail all my courses for this semester, and I don't even have any excuses as to why. I know the exact reasons why. I commute and I rarely even drive to the building anymore. Even when I do drive to campus, I usually just sit in the library for 8 hours, then drive back home. I only work 20 hours on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday for money I don't really need, so that's not an excuse.
I can't pretend that I was out having too much fun because I don't have any friends or a significant other. I don't do drugs, drink alcohol, or go to parties. I'm not part of any clubs, and I'm only taking 12 hours of classes this semester, and most of those are the easiest classes I could find. I don't have any trauma or unfortunate physical, mental, or economic circumstances to blame it on. It's completely, unequivocally my fault. I just can't bring myself to do anything anymore. I would rather stare at an assignment for hours, even if it's something I can complete by looking it up online, than actually do the work. Studying is almost completely out of the picture, as I can barely focus on anything for more than a few minutes before my mind wanders off to something else entirely.
This is so important to my future, and I can barely care anymore. I used to be so good. I would complete everything on time, be efficient in my studying, regularly talk to my professors. Now I can barely get myself out of bed anymore, and the more time that passes, the closer I get to failing this semester even more than I already have. I had been feeling like this for years, ever since the pandemic started, but it was never a problem until now, and now its too late to fix it.
I have a test tomorrow. I don't know anything about the topic and at this point I'm too tired to care. I'll probably just fail this one too.
Where did I go wrong? Why can't I care anymore. Why did this become so hard?
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2023.03.22 16:05 matt-murray17 How I do the meme dumps

I’ve used the same image twice occasionally, like the one of the IDF officer and the civilian target image. When I make a meme dump, I pick the first 5 or so photos from memes that I recently added to my phone, then the rest I scroll down my phone a bit and choose images that I think still hold up as funny. Occasionally I’ll use the same image twice because I forget that I’ve already used it. Sorry!
Hopefully the posts are still fine though, and like I previously mentioned I’m moving over to doing a meme dump twice a week rather than every day, as I don’t find nearly enough content to bother post it daily.
Have a good rest of your day!
-dumbass moderator
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2023.03.22 16:05 Kk77789 Free Short TAFE courses!

Hello! I’ve been dealing with centerlink/job providers for years, and have never really been given much support other than ‘start a full time job’ or ‘start a full time course’.
It can be a lot of money, to start a new full time course, especially if you haven’t studied in a long time, or if you wonder whether you’ll be able to complete it. I have studied with TAFE Digital previously and just got their email about the new short courses.
I signed up for one 4 hours ago, and already have access to my assessments, resources, support and have 90 days to complete 2 units. Most of the courses are fully online.
You can sign up for these courses free of charge if your eligible, and I don’t report it to my Job ProvideCenterlink, as I’m doing it in my own time and still applying for jobs/working in the mean time. If you’ve ever wondered about how courses would be, this could be an option for you. You only receive a Statement of Attainment, but it all helps in building yourself up.
Let me know if you need to know anything and I’ll try my best to answer, otherwise I’m wishing everyone the best!! I can send you the link if needed, but all short courses are listed on the TAFE NSW website and I’m sure it’s the same for other states.
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2023.03.22 16:05 sugarfreelime2 The Right Move by Liz Tomforde

I am in swoon city and would love to gush about this book with y'all!
If you are looking for an MMC who shows affection through small gestures, is incredibly thoughtful and honest, expresses a little of all five love languages, gets dominant in the sheets and gives so much praise...allow me to introduce you to Ryan Shay, NBA’s most popular basketball player.
If you want an FMC who makes you laugh with her wit, is a romantic and loves to read romance, and is easy to root for as she puts herself back together after a breakup with her cheating ex...you need to meet Indy Ivers.
And if you love forced proximity and/or fake dating, this is your book. Ryan and Indy are roommates who agree to fake date for their own reasons. It'll help Ryan show the team's general manager that he actually has a work/life balance and isn't a recluse, and it'll mean Indy has a date to her friend's wedding where her ex will be at.
The rest of this post will be all spoilers so please come back after you read this book!
OK Ryan Shay?? Let's talk gestures. I swooned over the tiny detail that after she casually mentioned her favorite color was lavender, not only did he buy her a bed for the guest room but he specifically bought her lavender colored sheets. So you can only imagine how my heart just continued doubling in size when it was revealed he learned sign language to talk to her dad (a bare minimum expectation according to Ryan!) AND had paid for her egg retrieval before they had even admitted their real feelings for each other! The way he "loves quietly" was so moving to me.
Now for the spice! I love me a "nice in the streets, dirty in the sheets" MMC and Ryan delivered. He also had me questioning how was he so good when he had been celibate for so long?! I mean, good for him. I was also shocked by how much praise he handed out. Once he knew Indy liked that, there was no stopping him.
And on to the rest of the book. With a book as long as this (530 pages), I never felt the need to skim past scenes or inner dialogue. While this could be read as a standalone, I did appreciate that I read Mile High first. It was a lot of fun seeing more of Stevie and Zanders, especially their engagement party. But this book was an easy 5/5 stars for me and Mile High was 4/5.
If you read this book, I'd love to hear what you thought of it!
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2023.03.22 16:05 Fast_Mitch The Beach Bob’s Resort! [PC Server][PVE][7+ Map Cluster][QoL Mods][Plugins][Beginner Friendly][EU-Based]

Are you new to the game? Ever picked it up but just haven’t been able to get into it? Then our cluster is just the right place for you!
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The Anniversary event for the 1-Year anniversary of the BBR has begun! Join now and have a chance at taming a dino only available during this event!
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The Beach Bob Resort is a PVE cluster focused around beginners! The cluster features a lot of both beginners and more advanced players who are all friendly and very helpful when it comes to learning more about the game. The servers feature multiple custom implemented plugins/mods to enrich the vanilla gameplay and make it more easygoing without losing the challenge that Ark provides. Next to that, the Discord itself contains several systems that help you in playing the game, from a complete information-hub forum containing all kinds of useful information/tips on the clustegame all the way to tribe chat synchronization to Discord and much much more! More experienced players are welcome as well, we could always use more people! =D
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Please use this discord link to join!
Or you can alternatively use the code yourself:
arkbbr
Hope to see you wash up on our shores!
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Here is an overview of the main features of the Beach Bob's Resort!
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Map list:
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2023.03.22 16:05 Fast_Mitch The Beach Bob’s Resort! [PC Server][PVE][7+ Map Cluster][QoL Mods][Plugins][Beginner Friendly][EU-Based]

Are you new to the game? Ever picked it up but just haven’t been able to get into it? Then our cluster is just the right place for you!
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The Anniversary event for the 1-Year anniversary of the BBR has begun! Join now and have a chance at taming a dino only available during this event!
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The Beach Bob Resort is a PVE cluster focused around beginners! The cluster features a lot of both beginners and more advanced players who are all friendly and very helpful when it comes to learning more about the game. The servers feature multiple custom implemented plugins/mods to enrich the vanilla gameplay and make it more easygoing without losing the challenge that Ark provides. Next to that, the Discord itself contains several systems that help you in playing the game, from a complete information-hub forum containing all kinds of useful information/tips on the clustegame all the way to tribe chat synchronization to Discord and much much more! More experienced players are welcome as well, we could always use more people! =D
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Please use this discord link to join!
Or you can alternatively use the code yourself:
arkbbr
Hope to see you wash up on our shores!
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Here is an overview of the main features of the Beach Bob's Resort!
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Map list:
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Server config:
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2023.03.22 16:04 KatGoneGamer Looking for PS and xBox buddies!

Hello! I'm a 30-year-old from Canada, but moving to the USA this year. Since I started working from home I find myself pretty isolated. I would absolutely love to have some friends to play with my husband and I. We typically play Call of Duty: MW2 on Xbox(but we are down for cross-play pals), and Forza but we are open to other games! I personally just started Fortnite but I can't seem to get the hang of it haha. We are pretty laid back, not "try hards", but we will light-heartedly banter with one another. Time Zone: EST Time We Typically Play: 7PM on weekdays, I'm on all the time on the weekend.
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2023.03.22 16:04 Fast_Mitch The Beach Bob’s Resort! [PC Server][PVE][7+ Map Cluster][QoL Mods][Plugins][Beginner Friendly][EU-Based]

Are you new to the game? Ever picked it up but just haven’t been able to get into it? Then our cluster is just the right place for you!
​
The Anniversary event for the 1-Year anniversary of the BBR has begun! Join now and have a chance at taming a dino only available during this event!
​
The Beach Bob Resort is a PVE cluster focused around beginners! The cluster features a lot of both beginners and more advanced players who are all friendly and very helpful when it comes to learning more about the game. The servers feature multiple custom implemented plugins/mods to enrich the vanilla gameplay and make it more easygoing without losing the challenge that Ark provides. Next to that, the Discord itself contains several systems that help you in playing the game, from a complete information-hub forum containing all kinds of useful information/tips on the clustegame all the way to tribe chat synchronization to Discord and much much more! More experienced players are welcome as well, we could always use more people! =D
​
Please use this discord link to join!
Or you can alternatively use the code yourself:
arkbbr
Hope to see you wash up on our shores!
​
Here is an overview of the main features of the Beach Bob's Resort!
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Map list:
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Server config:
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Plugin system:
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Mods:
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2023.03.22 16:04 Working-Region9098 chanceme for duke, rice, vanderbilt, etc as a current sophomore

i'm a current sophomore but was just curious to see how my current/predicted stats would fare at these universities
obviously i still have two years so please tell me what i can improve on!
Demographics: Female, Asian, public magnet school, no hooks
Intended Major(s): probably premed, maybe business if i get into a really top tier business university by some chance
ACT/SAT/SAT II: will probably be around 34/35/36 -- not planning to take the SAT
UW/W GPA and Rank: (predicted): UW: 4.0, W: 4.8
Coursework: planning to take around 12ish APs in total
Awards:
Extracurriculars:
Schools: Rice, Duke, Vanderbilt, UC Berkeley, U Chicago, NYU, WashU
will def apply to more but these are my main universities for now
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2023.03.22 16:04 MsMigginsPieShop Gothard

I've always wondered what people found appealing about Gothard. From what I've read, his Basic seminars used to have packed audiences in the 70s and 80s. I listened to one such seminar that's available on YouTube(RIP, my lunch hour!). I still don't understand his appeal. The content seemed quite repetitive, gimmicky and, sometimes, downright illogical. He seemed to be a good speaker but nothing extraordinary. There are plenty of Christian preachers out there who speak as well as Gothard and know as much scripture, if not more, than him. I can see how anti-Hippie and anti-free love sentiments might have bolstered Gothard's initial popularity. But, he seems to have been quite popular well into the 90s and early 2000s too.
So what made him so famous and sought after? Did he just have a very good marketing team? What was so unique about his preaching?
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2023.03.22 16:04 AjVine Would you want Ancelotti to stay if he ends up winning CL and Copa del Rey?

I know it still stings for many, but Barça sucking ass was not going to last forever. La Liga was lost by us and it honestly happens sometimes; that’s just the nature of the sport. Now unless a miracle happens and Barça somehow relax and starts losing game after game, realistically we still have two trophies to fight for. In the chance that we end up winning the champions league and Copa del Rey, would you want, or do you think Ancelotti deserves to stay? It should be noted that we have already won the Club World Cup and doing a 2peat is something only one other manager has been able to achieve. What are your thoughts?
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2023.03.22 16:04 ibewayup Me (27F) & my now-ex (29M) of 10 yrs. are ending things

Well, I want/need to. But he's begging for me back. Here it goes....
I lost my grandma in 2021. Then, my mom in 2022, two weeks after my birthday. I've had to endure the toughest losses of my life with no family support. Generally, I've been focused on healing and spiritual growth & have really managed to keep my faith & even sought therapy, which went great for me. Despite that, three months after my mom passed, I found text messages to 2 different girls on his phone. He said he would never hurt me again and prove to me how much he loves me, blah blah blah. Needless to say, it was a shit show. What did I do? Give him another chance. Why?
  1. My moms apartment was left (and still is) in a horrible condition. It needs hella TLC & a full blown renovation. No, seriously - there's no kitchen or toilets or anything. It's unlivable.
  2. My lease had just been renewed for another year and NO, I'm not going to break my lease to then be homeless with nowhere to go. No friends I can stay with either.
Fast forward to present day, I found another message to a girl on IG yesterday. The feeling you get when you find something is simply the WORST. Unfortunately, I know this pain all too well but I'm not going to write our entire relationship history on this post. He knows I have no family. I told him he was my only family. Him & our dog. That's it.
I spent some time with one of my close friends after work instead of going straight home to be in anguish under the same roof as him. It helped very much but it doesn't eliminate the pain. Today we're going to talk after work b/c he asked me to give him the chance to hear him out. Not sure what there is for him to say. I've been brainstorming about what I can possibly do. Like I said before, I can't break my lease, I can't move to my mom's apartment so... IDK where to go from here other than have one of the toughest conversations of my life and tell him "it's done" - but then what?
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2023.03.22 16:04 warda8825 Paperwork BS for pts with chronic conditions?

BLUF: Pts with chronic conditions that still have a need to work remotely. How are y'all dealing with the incessant, endless, bureaucratic paperwork that their employers demand?
FM/PCM clinic. Handful of pts with various chronic conditions that still have an ongoing need to work remotely (i.e. due to being immunocompromised). Many of them are subject to stringent regulations/policies through their employer in order to maintain their remote working status, which requires physician-completed paperwork.
Example: initially, pts employer accepted a standard doctors letter, and the extension was valid for up to 5 months. Then, the extensions became valid for up to only 4 months, then 3 months. Then, pts employer started declining doctors letters, and mandated that we fill out a very specific 5-7 page packet with detailed information about the pts med history. Cherry on top? Once filled out, this extension is now only valid for 60 days. However, to meet that 60-day timeline, in order to 'bake in' sufficient time for us to process the paperwork, and for the pts employer to process it also, the pt is essentially forced to come to us every ~4-6 weeks or so to have the same stupid packet filled out. Many of these pts have chronic conditions that are life-long, i.e shit ain't going away anytime soon, if ever. Seems exceedingly bureaucratic to have to share the same info every fucking two months.
Many of these pts understand the pressures that HCWs are under, given that they often spend oodles of time in the hospital for things like HD/PD, immunotherapy, etc., and they feel super bad/guilty that they're forced to bring us this paperwork repeatedly.
How are y'all dealing with these types of scenarios?
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2023.03.22 16:03 GHitoshura Is there a way to access all or at least most of Hololive's original songs and covers?

With the recent Fes I've been wanting to listen to more music made by the talents of all branches, but I've had a difficult time finding a place that has all of it. In Spotify I've seen a pretty limited amount of mostly original songs and the Youtube playlists I've found up to now are either missing a lot of songs or haven't been updated in a long time.
I know there are some covers that got deleted or private over the years and some original songs can only be found by buying the albums, but I'm still curious if anyone knows of a way to find all or at least most of the music.
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2023.03.22 16:03 DelayedFlan Diablo 4 endgame explained clearly, from an endgame cbt player

1) Whisper of the Dead

(Comparable to Diablo 3 bounties)
Screenshot:
Completing various objectives (could be dungeons, open world events, world bosses, pvp bosses, pvp altar conversion, etc) will fill up your Grim Favors gauge (displayed at the bottom of the map screen).
The more rewarding objectives are displayed in a deeper red, the lesser in a pale pink. There is a daily/gated component to it, meaning you will run out of deep red objectives if you do them all day.
Once your Grim Favors gauge is full, you have to speak to the Tree in a small town (forgot the name) of Hawezar swamp region (south east of the map, there is a "skull with red branches" icon).
The Tree will reward you with experience and give you a bounty cache (you can choose amongst a few), the cache will have a high chance to drop legendary items and nightmare sigils, among other things.
Difficulty
Easy and chill. Can pick the objectives you want to complete since they are so varied.
Rewards

2) Helltide events

(Comparable to Diablo 2 terror zones)
Screenshots:
A big area randomly and periodically becomes corrupted (appears red on the map). New and more dangerous monsters, bosses and events will spawn there, including a very strong roaming boss named "Kixxarth The Forerunner" that usually requires a group to be defeated (or a very strong build, to be soloed).
Killing stuff there awards Aberrant Cinders, which will allow you to open chests (Tortured Gifts) scattered in the region, those chests give a specific legendary (the type of which is indicated on the chest) and a unique crafting material called "Fiend Rose", which is not found anywhere else, allowing you upgrade your gear to the highest rank.
Difficulty
Rewards

3) World Bosses

(Comparable to Loot Piñatas)
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In endgame CBT, World Bosses spawned every hour or so. When they are 30 minutes away from spawning, an icon will show up on the map with a countdown. (I don't know if they will change the frequency for release).
World Bosses always spawn on a timer, in one of their dedicated arena, an empty area on the map which stands out (there are a few scattered across the map), they never spawn randomly/suddenly just anywhere in the open world (unlike what some early official clips show).
If I remember correctly, the icon/timer will only show up on your map if you have explored nearby. It's a good idea to explore various corners of the map early on so you have a portal ready to quick travel to them.
Difficulty
Slightly challenging early on, very easy at high level with a half decent build.
Rewards

4) PVP area farming

Screenshot:
Now wether you like PVP or not, the PVP area offers one of the most viable way to farm legendary equip (at least this was the case in endgame cbt).
There are a lot of monsters there, which you can farm for Seed of Hatred (or even regular gear, since density is pretty good). Seed of Hatred is a currency which, once converted via the PVP altars, allows you to gamble for gear (also offers a few cosmetics). In endgame CBT it was the most viable way to farm gear, and so most players didn't Bloodmark (pvp flag) themselves so they could cooperate and simply PVE farm.
Bloodmarking oneself allows you to attack anyone (including non-Bloodmarked players), it's basically "hostile mode", and doing so increases your Seed of Hatred rate, but you can choose not to Bloodmark yourself and cooperate with other non-Bloodmarked players to simply farm PVE monsters. This will not prevent you from being attacked by hostile "Bloodmarked" players though.
Difficulty
Rewards

5) Nightmare Dungeons

(Comparable to Path of Exile maps)
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Now I saved the most challenging content for last, and what some will call the "true endgame". Nightmare Sigil is a consumable (which can be found or crafted by the occultist) which allows you to corrupt a dungeon with certain affixes.
Once the dungeon is corrupted, you have to make your way to it by foot or horse on the open-world (but you can be summoned by players already there). You have a limited amount of revives inside the dungeon.
Edit: It appears you're now able to teleport directly to a nightmare dungeon:
Small update to note with nightmare dungeons you should note. In the alpha test late last year when you got a sigil you could use it to teleport to the dungeon so you don’t have to ride or walk there. Otherwise this is a good guide. -Thatdude446
The level of the monsters will depend on the tier of the Nightmare Sigil, for example a Tier 66 Nightmare Sigil will give you level 120 monsters.
The implicit dungeon objectives don't change (yep, you still gotta find the key, activate the switch or bring the stone to open the door, etc), monster density is increased, and some affixes may affect the way you play, for example there is an affix which makes a lightning bolt periodically hit you (it can one shot you), while there is an artefact following you around and periodically casting a dome, you have to go under the dome to not get hit by the lightning bolt. There are probably a handful affixes such as the Lightning dome, which stand out.
Difficulty
Rewards
Glyph is an item which gives a huge passive bonus, similar to Diablo 3 legendary gems, which is socketed into the Paragon board (each board has 1 slot, and we're looking at 3~5 Glyphs per build).
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2023.03.22 16:03 re2112 I wish things could’ve gone differently.

Maybe if we were both more honest with each other then we’d still be friends. But I feel what I did was for the best because I couldn’t continue living life how I was.
My feelings for your friendship and company were restarted in a way when you appeared in one of my dreams. Even in the dream I avoided speaking with you. I really wished things played out differently.
5 months later and I still randomly remember you. Sometimes I wish I could reach out. But I can’t.
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2023.03.22 16:03 __LauritsMikkelsen__ Lisboa nightlife question

Is it standard practice for bars and clubs in Lisboa to ask for identification in the nightlife scene, considering that two of my friends are 18 while the other is 17 and therefore cannot legally enter certain venues? We are exploring the possibility of travelling during the summer and would appreciate any relevant information.
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2023.03.22 16:03 disgusted_alt [IA] Charges for failing probation?

My partner (16) had almost finished probation but failed a random drug test a while ago. He has court in two days, what happens now if his original charges were theft and mip? He doesn’t do that stuff anymore and gave up weed completely now, and I think they’re still testing him so that could help the case.
What could happen to him now?? Things are going very well for both of us and I really don’t want to have it all taken away over a simple mistake.
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2023.03.22 16:03 lmaowhatislife16 19 [F4R] Malaysia/anywhere - I can't stop watching Stardew Valley videos help 💀

Ellooo there, I'm an uni student who just got started with my final semester so loads of free time which also mean boredom Imao. Like I have friends but they are usually busy with something else like they are literally back home rn while I'm still at uni (it is currently a two days break) Anyways, will try to not talk way too much about me. First things first, I'm looking for people to talk with like friends and such but I'm open to something romantic if we actually clicked.
Little bit abt me:
I can be a little clingy and talkative (extremely actually but usually can handle it) but the good news (or bad news?) is if I get clingy, it means I actually love talking to you, platonically or romantically :D also love voicecalls so yuh. Oooo I'm also bi. Im also pretty sarcastic and like to be cringy as a joke.
My interests are listening to music 24/7 (I can share you my fav playlist), walking around, stare at the ceiling, watch yt videos, listening to my bsfs rants, watch tiktoks (I love animal videos ong), play games like Stardew Valley, the Sims and more (I would love recommendations cuz have no idea what game is actually fun), sending my friends memes or random pics (Could be you😻🫵), talk about literally everything can think of, eat snacks until I ran out of it and then complain about how much eat and napping cuz sleep is awesome
My humour are pretty dark and laugh at almost everything especially anti jokes or dad jokes.
Red flags about me? Idek but have depression and BPD. I'm currently taking medication for it tho and I'm mostly sane and functional. also like to nap randomly or get distracted with stuff quite easily so I might reply late but I try my best to reply asap. I asked my friends what are my red flags and they said "You can be annoying plus you should stop falling for people so easily so yuh 😜💅🏻 I can be a little narcissistic tho but in a way where Im sometimes very confident with how look but sometimes I can't even look at myself in the mirror so not that narcissistic 💀💀
Appearance wise, well imma give you the basic but idm sending a pic eventually but anyways, I'm 5 feet ish, almost as heavy as a toilet, I got hair so that's something 😝 🙏🏻 fr tho I have straight (it's fake) brown hair tho like to dye and bleach it sometimes (if you ask for what colours have dyed to, I may or may not spam you pics of my hair) I got glasses that I'm literally blind without it
What I'm looking for;
People where I can actually have a convo that wouldn't ghost me all the sudden one day without any reason. Share similar humour or at least can tolerant my humour. We can get comfortable enough to share random stuff with each other fr. I can't think anything else so feel free to ask me questions. Also prefer moving to different platforms so yuh.
I think that is all I can think of for now so pretty please with sprinkles on top, don't be dry nor a creep. Please don't be so old that you can be my mum or dad Also, rather that you send me an intro about yourself or say something funny so that I know that you actually read it (Actually, send a 🦧 cuz monke) so yeah see ya in my dms and thanks for reading :D
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2023.03.22 16:03 sildish2179 Does Bard like cd’s?

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2023.03.22 16:03 SecretFootball1746 Need help in deciding if these were signs of romantic interest in my past. Any other INTJs relate to these stories, and how did you respond?

I think it may just be my age and a couple months away from 30, but I've started looking back on my experiences. Primarily with women. I thought women only recently started finding me attractive, but I've talked through these cases with some male and female friends and I'm wondering if I was just dense as a young man and to see if any other INTJs can relate to these experiences. Someone from this subreddit reached out in messages so I'm just going to paste what I wrote to them with a couple of edits. Apologize for the length, each experience will be it's own paragraph:
There was a girl in high school who I took an AP course with. She was an attractive blonde a bit taller than me and she'd always smile at my puns or little snide teenager jokes at others expense, if I'm honest. I've never really been a big hugger but she'd kind of force them on me. She also brought up sex after her and her boyfriend broke up. Basically saying she hadn't gotten it in so long to me. I guess I didn't respond in the right way and she rejected me. I actually liked her too so that did sting. I think I started associating talking about sex with being in the friendzone after that. Like, they'll talk to you about it because they feel safe talking about it because there is no chance of it happening with you. Anytime a girl then brought up sex to me, I just mentally kind of dismissed them, as in they aren’t actually interested they just want some free attention and maybe sex just happens to be the most effective bait. Might be a shitty way to feel but it’s how it felt at the time
I stayed pretty focused in college so not much dating. I’ve always wanted to retire by about 50 so I knew I had to hit the ground running to do that. But at the summer jobs before my senior year I think I had 2 girls who also made passes at me. This was a summer gig where they’d pay for a few beers each Friday for the employees. And every time we’d go out this one girl, also an attractive blonde, would just kind of stick to me and laugh at everything I’d say. She even asked for a compliment, that would also shock her. I think I said “fuckable ass” or something like that and she burst out laughing. Luckily I wasn’t over by anyone I worked with so I didn’t get in trouble with work. But she would also float around and was friendly with everyone, but she’d always talk about sexual things with me. I think I assumed it was because again she viewed me as a friend and found me unthreatening so she could be open about these things. But, that’s not exactly fulfilling on my end, though I might have misperceived her intentions.
At the same job there was a cute brunette who was actually shorter than me. The other two girls were actually slightly taller than me. But she would be much more physically affectionate. Touching my arm, I’d catch her just behind me a few times. One night she was holding onto me when we were getting Ubers to go back to someone else’s place. We had to get into separate Vehicles and I’d Irish goodbye’d a couple times before. I know it’s rude but I was tired and I wanted to go home and nobody was talking to me by those points anyways. But she made me pinkie swear I’d meet her there. I actually think this girl liked me, but then a dude at the company making 85K a year with a full time job took an interest, so yeah. That hurt but every guy has stories like that. I’d bury that fucker today though, engineering is nothing to fuck with, I’m not bitter, not at all.
One notable story though was that I went to the last girl’s apartment with a friend and another girl and we got a handle of Captain Morgan, got really drunk and they started taking polaroids of them kissing me on the cheeks, joking around and generally having fun. Around 1 AM we call it a night. I’m trashed. I tried to be impressive and drunk a fuck ton so I stumbled into the women’s room, and out comes the girl from the last paragraph naked covering up. I cover up my eyes and apologize and I think she said “I don’t mind”
My senior year of college was this cute pixie haired girl who was actually into the same music as me. She played violin and I even recorded her on a song of mine. Her, another girl, and another friend of mine were also the first people I did LSD with. I think she flirted with me a little bit beforehand, it’s really hard to tell, but after we took it she was glued to me for like 4 hours, but she complimented my jacket and how comfy it was and not me and I think I just took that at face value and not that she was attracted to me but that the LSD made my jacket have a good sensation. I think I was a little clingy and felt a little weird so I didn’t want to really be touched afterwards. I think I reacted a little weird when she tried to hug me, and the other girl called me rude. The next morning I dropped both of them off, I dropped off the other girl first then dropped off the pixie haired girl. She actually took me by the hand and said something along the lines of “I really enjoyed that experience and I’m happy you opened up to me. I know you feel weird right now but please text me?” but I guess I felt discomfort with how emotionally vulnerable I was afterward. I also just thought she was trying to make me feel like I wasn’t weird even though I felt like I acted weird by opening up. It felt kind of weak to be that affectionate.
Last girl, and the one that hurt that most, was a girl I worked with at a full time job about 5 years ago. I’d graduated and was just working bullshit office jobs where you are just dotting i’s and crossing t’s. She had a really loud laugh that some people found annoying but I thought was really cute, she was also another attractive blonde. We worked together for two years and over that time we’d get drinks on Friday nights. She was very eccentric and would do things like twerk in bars (at like 1 AM when all the “adult” employees had gone) would be very touchy with everyone. For like the first six months we didn’t really talk, but then they rearranged our desks at our office and we sat next to each other. She’d giggle at a lot of what I said (see a pattern) and would add little things like “the metaphors, I can’t!” Very excitedly. There was just something super genuine about her. I kept my distance a little because, she was a party girl and had certain habits I didn’t want a part of. But we still hung out and enjoyed each other’s company. She then hit me with the question all of these women hit me with at one point or another “Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” I gave her some kind of half response because I didn’t know how to answer, and I’d told her about my mother and what she was like, she asked if that was why. I just got quiet and stared forward. She tried to give me some affirmations and gave me a kiss on the cheek. AGAIN, I think I just kind of dismissed it as friendliness because she was friendly with everyone.
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I think there is at least a 51% possibility some of these women found me attractive. I think I was just too naive and dense at the time to see them. There have been a couple of women I knew liked me, but I didn't find them attractive so never really pursued it. I'm really not posting this trying to brag. I've felt borderline unwanted most of my life because I genuinely just thought women didn't find me attractive, but I can actually work to improve on naive and dense though, and that gives me hope for a better future.
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2023.03.22 16:03 Throwingitallaway0no I’m sick of being abusive and unhappy with my partner who loves me.

I’m an abusive partner. I’m 24M and my partner is 23F. We’ve been together for 2 years. I did a shitload of research and am pretty sure I am a solid narcissistic. I also have ADHD. My partner also has ADHD but is very caring. (Just extra notes)
When we met, I was very kind and enjoyed the honeymoon phase with her and there was no toxicity whatsoever. It was amazing. We are now living together which means dealing with each other in a more real way. We eat together, do things in the evening together after work and sleep together too (no shit sherlock). What should be a very healthy relationship I have piece by piece dismantled over the course of the last 6 months.
My partner is such a good person, she values integrity, honesty and intimacy which are all my deepest fears. Our relationship began with small problems such as silly communication issues and ironing out my childish behaviour which have since gotten a lot better. But I seem to have just made her unhappier and unhappier and I just don’t know why I can’t change?
I feel guilt and sadness for what I’ve done which motivates me to change and be thoughtful, but after a few days I get complacent. I totally forget about what I’ve done and don’t feel the drive to change anymore. Even when I mentally remind myself of the reality of the situation, I cannot bring myself to be compassionate. knowing that even though I don’t feel that burning guilt right this very moment, I still eventually find myself becoming bitter, I can feel my life and my problems bubbling back up and being more important than treating my partner right. It’s like I am incapable of becoming better or facing my weaknesses/fears because EVENTUALLY I will feel the same old feelings of wanting to be put first, wanting what I want first, wanting my needs met before anything or anyone else. Compromise doesn’t exist to me. I don’t see the value in helping or making sure other people get what they want. I obviously want people to get what they want, but in an intimate relationship or in sex, I just feel this deep feeling of disgust for putting someone else first - especially with sex and romance. Their pleasure or happiness (if it doesn’t align with mine) makes me resentful if I have to feel uncomfortable which is all the damn time.
When my gf came to live with me a few months back, I ended up going into a sort of depressive and ended up in an abusive state. I think because she was living with me and I had to (rightfully so) show up emotionally, care for her and be intimate with her, I ended up becoming resentful and made her life hell.
I would be distant, cold, bitter. I would always feel frustrated by her for some reason. I put her through narcissistic abuse. She would do NOTHING wrong. All she ever wanted was intimacy, truth and love, and that made me feel so shit for some reason. I didn’t know I was abusing her, I was just trying to cope in my head, but I did what I did and it’s unacceptable.
On top of this, before we were dating but still talking intimately I slept with someone else. I never told her and only told her about it a few months ago because I felt bad that she didn’t know. She considered this cheating and so do I. (Regardless of what you may think about this part, I was deceitful and it was essentially as close to cheating as you could get. We were talking every single day and told each other we wanted to be together).
Throughout our sex life I have struggled with ED (I think it is porn induced) and this resulted in me always being prioritised in the bedroom. She always made time for me. I’ve orgasmed maybe 100 times with her and she’s orgasmed maybe twice. This must be SO SHIT for her but for some FUCKING reason, as soon as we are having sex or doing stuff; I am never that driven to help her finish. It seems like too much effort. I am attracted to her but I always think ‘there are more beautiful women than this, I should be putting my energy into making more beautiful women cum’ and TOXIC and frankly idiotic shit like that. But holy shit those thoughts are so real to me.
Anyway, just last night we were doing stuff and it was super nice. We were masterbating each other and I came first. She then wanted to finish and I just did not put the effort in to help her finish and this broke her. I mean totally broke her. After everything in our relationship, all the shit she had gone through, I can’t even have nice sex with her and disrespect and push her away one final time. What the Fuck is wrong with me.
The only Fucking reason I’m writing this is because of last night and how upset it made her. As soon as I think she will break up I suddenly find ALL THE ENERGY in the world to change. Rest assured in a week from now I will slowly slither back to my old ways and suddenly ‘run out’ of this energy. I hate myself for being like this. It’s like I can never truly be sorry because every time I am sorry I do it again.
Should we break up? I don’t want to hurt her anymore. I know logically what a good person is and what a bad person is, and if breaking up with her is the ‘good’ thing to do (because I’ll spare her from more pain) then I will do it. I’m terrified to leave her because I KNOW that all I need to do is just learn to become more kind and empathetic; but I am deeply broken and do not have any drive to do so. I know myself, and I know I will not be able to consistently improve and be better. My girlfriend is a good person, a beautiful woman and a brilliant partner. I am a loser and for some reason every bit of me wants to just be a loser. I wish I could just look at her and feel happy. I hate myself.
Thank you for reading if you read all of it. Any feedback is great. Attack me or whatever you want, just need to put this out there.
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