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2023.03.22 16:57 ThrowRA1234567448 I made a hurtful decision

So a while ago I F22 had an experience of accidently catching my boyfriend M29 looking up violent porn. We were supposed to quit together porn together. I also became suspicious after this moment an insecure. Before that I wasn't, it's like after that I lost my innocence and suddenly realized he could do anything without telling me. After that I caught him once more months later, he said this was the first time in those months and I do believe him. But after that I got even more paranoid. I basically told him if he does that again I'd rather just tell me so I don't find it myself on accident. I was really hurt by this but eventually I sort of got over it.
Then one night I was thinking alone and remembered those moments, I started feeling maybe hes doing that again even though I've been good all this time. I felt really stupid. So I did something really stupid. I opened up an exes chat I closed years ago and looked at an old nude of his for a few seconds. I felt really bad after. I wanted to not feel stupid I guess that he was doing bad things without telling me, so I thought it would make me feel less stupid if I did something bad as well. I know, it's super immature.
I told him out of guilt and he's been understandably mad and sad for a few days. I also feel really sad and anxious for doing something like that. Am I a bad person? I'm scared he won't forgive me. I even threw up in his house for all the bad feelings of guilt inside me. I feel really stupid. I basically shot myself in the foot and hurt someone I love. We have been dating for almost three years.
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2023.03.22 16:56 P1tch19 Poor wireless internet speeds using a Netgear A6150 USB adapter.

I will try to keep this is as short and concise as possible. I live with 2 college roommates and we pay for Xfinity Wi-Fi at 1200mbps. The only port where our Coax cable will work for internet is in the dining room on the opposite side of the house, probably 50 feet from my computer. It has to travel through multiple walls and the kitchen before it reaches mine and my roommates room. I struggle to keep 30ish down when running speed tests which causes a lot of issues. Yes, I’m aware Ethernet should be used for gaming purposes but it isn’t feasible for our situation. All 3 of us game, sometimes simultaneously. What are my options to have better Wi-Fi speeds?
Note: I am using a Wi-Fi adapter because the computer is new and the Wi-Fi card on the motherboard is very weak.
Thank you all for your time and please let me know of anything else I can clarify if need be!
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2023.03.22 16:56 Itsarockinahat Sometimes it's just the little things that drive a fresh dagger of frustration into my soul. The little thing this time is a stamped envelope...

I flipped open the book "The Mormon Church and Blacks: A Documentary History" by Bringhurst and Harris.
They write about Jane E. James and her tireless attempts to be allowed to do the temple work for herself and her deceased loved ones.
In 1903 she makes one final appeal to Joseph F. Smith:
"Salt Lake City Aug 31st 1903
President Joseph F. Smith
Dear Brother I take this opportunity of writing to ask you if I can get my endowments and also finish the work I have begun for My dead…
Your sister in the Gospel Jane E James
I have enclosed a stamped Envelope for reply"

-- This woman, a black woman, who I am guessing was not wealthy, felt that she needed to pay for the postage of a wealthy white man if she had any hope of hearing back from him. As far as I can tell, Joseph F. never did reply. Poor but faithful Jane wasted 20 years and an extra stamp trying to get several white "prophets and apostles" to do the humane and Christian thing.
And her being "allowed" to be sealed as a servant to JS just makes their non-compliance to her actual wishes so much worse.
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2023.03.22 16:55 natmarnat Can we afford it or are we being stupid?

Having a hard time determining if my partner and I will be house poor. I know this comes up a lot in these threads and perhaps its because all first time homebuyers struggle with such an emotional purchase.
We live in a HCOL city - and have found a property that seems undervalued at 900k. Its a long term home that we could grow into which we never thought we could afford (or can we?). We feel confident in its resale value since the price has dropped during this period of rising interest rates and is in a neighborhood that can see more appreciation.
We make a combined ~270k plus, on average, 20k bonus. We don't have student debt or car payments. We have about ~180k saved. We've been maxing out our retirement accounts and living pretty leisurely - yet relatively frugally - with an average 2.5k monthly expenditure.
We know its a stretch on our budget. Hoping for more opinions.
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2023.03.22 16:55 Tiberiusthemad [REQUEST][PC] Payday 2 PC

Hey guys! Payday 2 is on sale for 2.49$. But i can't afford it atm because of college and there are alot of fees, and it is hard to get a credit card in where i live (Algeria, north africa). And even if i pay someone who has it would be double the price in my currency because the flow of hard currency here is sort of limited and stuff, i tried it before.
I played this game when i had my xbox one with gamepass, it was really good and i always wanted to get it ever since, i also met a lot of interesting people in this game some of which became my friends. It is a good game to pass time, make friendships and so forth. Recently i saved up and bought my first pc, took me a few months to save up. And i'd love to experience this game in PC aswell. After i finish college and get a job with insurance i will be able to get my own credit card, and hopefully i will be able to spread goodness to those who are not able to buy, or just donate to plant trees.
If anyone can afford this gift and doesn't put him/her in financial problems i'd be happy to have it. Thank you so much!
Here is my steam account : https://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198087864326/
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2023.03.22 16:55 princessboudicca My Ex Girlfriend Might Be Bi...

First off, sorry for the hella long post.
So my ex and i broke up about a month ago now. Things have been really tense between us lately with a big move, her in grad school and me finding new jobs. We also did a lot of traveling all last summer and then thru the better part of December and January.
She has known I am trans since last June and has been really supportive and knows how hard this is for me and has been helpful with lots of the little stuff...
The problem has been that she has always said that she wasnt a lesbian and this has made things really awkward between us because I have kind of felt trapped in boymode even at home as I didn't want her to lose her attraction to me.
We are still living together since it will take me awhile to start all over again moving somewhere else and she has been totally cool with me taking as long as I need to come up with an exit strategy.
We were suppose to go to mexico while she was on spring break but she ended up going with one of her friends from school.
When she got back she seemed normal, she was excited to tell me about the trip and she got me some spicy mexican chocolate. Two days go by and we barely see each other. I've been working a lot and she is back to teaching.
Anyway, last night she came home with a bottle of wine and asked if I'd like to split it. I said sure, so we sat together on the couch and started talking about plans going forward. She asks if I am going to start presenting femme around the apartment, she offers to help me with my make-up, to take me to get my ears pierced finally, she says I can raid her closet if I want. I told her I really don't want to make her uncomfortable because if she had a bad reaction to seeing me in girlmode it would still just kill me since I still really love her and care about her opinion. She asks if she can see a picture of me in girlmode and I reluctantly show her...She just kind of stared at if for awhile, zooming in on my face and then back out. I kind of laugh and ask for my phone back before she starts scrolling thru my other less flattering pics.
She tells me she thinks I am really pretty and that she is sorry for not being able to handle seeing me like this for so longand that it was wrong of her. Then she tells me she missed me the whole time she was in Mexico and I told her I was still really heartbroken about the break-up but I totally understand that I have been really difficult these past few months and since shes not a lesbian we probably should have broke up sooner to atleast avoid the predicament we are in now.
Then it happens...She says she has been kind of closeted herself...and that she is actually into men and women...And she is really attracted to me as a woman and wants me to think about whether or not I would be open to being in an open relationship with her while we both figure ourselves out a little bit more. I told her I would think about it and get back to her in the next day or so...The thing is, I still really care about her and I don't really want to be with anyone else so being in an open relationship would only really benefit her (although Im not sure if she really wants to date other people either maybe its just her way of keeping the pressure off the relationship?)
I think I could be ok with an arrangement like this even though I have only ever been in monogamous relationships. I think me being able to present female around the house without worrying about her reaction would be really healthy for me and I have always dreamed of having a supportive partner like this.
However, I am also afraid that she will change her mind again and I'll just have to go through this heartache all over again but no risk no reward right?
What do you all think? Should I try to work this out with her? Or is this just an invitation for disaster? Part of me is really excited to have my first lesbian relationship, even if its with someone who used to perceive me as male...Ugh I am just so confused now.
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2023.03.22 16:55 geenuhahhh Can we talk about things that increase value?

I’m mostly just curious, but maybe not the right sub.
We bought a house with 5 acres of property, mixed woods/pasture.
In our area, a lot of homes had wood stoves, but ours had a chimney, but non permitted stove that had to be removed.
We spent $4500 getting a updated surround put in as well as a nicer certified wood stove with a chimney liner for safety and is now permitted with the county
Now, we do enjoy wood heat, so all good either way, but I’m curious what kind of return it could even bring.
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2023.03.22 16:55 ExtraStrain5888 Hard time getting deposit back

I've put down 2 deposits using a CC and the dealership I bought from quickly refunded my deposit to my CC. The other dealership I had talked to a few days before I picked up my car and told them to refund the deposit. They said they'd mail a check. Everytime I talk to them they say usually 3-5 days for the check. I live in the same town as the dealership. It's been 2 weeks now and everytime I call they say a sales manager isn't available and will call me back. Never calls back. I'm going to try to go there today when I have time to see if I can just pick up the check there. Or would it be better to do a chargeback?
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2023.03.22 16:55 geniusstardust Cooking by me

I like to cook since I was a child. At first, I just observed my mother, cooking in the kitchen. Then I started to help her in trivial tasks like chopping vegetables, grinding spices etc. One day I gathered courage and tried to cook fried rice with gravy. It turned out too salty. By making many mistakes like this, I learned to cook.
I like to cook my own meals. Warm handmade meals excites me and makes me relax. My favourite cuisine to cook is italian. I often invite my close friends for dinner at my house.

Did I write correctly?

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2023.03.22 16:55 Super-Shenron Endless Cycle

Lilly hid behind a tree, her breath held as hard as she could. She cursed her burning legs as she peered around both corners for potential attackers. All she saw was a silent, unmoving walker on the ground next to a shed. Waiting about five minutes in the same spot, she checked her bullets. Two. Noting to make her shots count, she stepped closer to examine the body and gave it a light kick. Lilly took its lack of response as a blessing to dig through its pockets, glancing over her shoulder the whole time. But whoever killed them already took everything they had.
“Shit.” Lilly said. Yet, her hand landed on something firm but small…
A quarter. Virginia, 2005 was written on it. Her father never had that one in his collection, although Lilly could imagine his reaction if he did. Funny. After all he went through on the battlefield, these tiny pieces were one of the few things that brought him some solace. If nothing else, Lilly dared to hope he finally found closure. Amidst the endless pounding of their heart, the living could use such luxury.
“Ah!” She gasped, taken aback by a nearby rustling. In a steady and quiet pace, Lilly huddled back in her hiding spot with a trembling hold of her weapon. Was she really being followed? She couldn’t even trust her senses with how light-headed she constantly felt. She dared another peek… when a man burst through the leaves, carrying a pot of sunflower in his hands. It was normally Lilly’s cue to leave… but the glimpse she took of his face stopped her. Against her better judgment, she double checked…
“Oh god…” Lilly held her tightened chest and used the tree for support. He… was there. That fucking animal was right here. He had an unkempt beard and an eyepatch, but this wasn’t a face Lilly could forget. Not that she didn’t try to… but even her “sleep” wouldn’t allow her. Like she was still imprisoned in that meat locker. Like there was no way out… none except death.
It didn’t have to be her own.
Just as she was about to come out of hiding… the door of the cabin closed. He was definitely inside… but he’d see her coming. There would be better opportunities to make him pay.
To think she once tried to find common ground with that…
“... That guy.”
“Kenny.” Lee corrected.
“Right.” Lilly coughed. “You really think I should talk to him?”
“I guess that’s up to you.”
Despite his evasive reply, his flickering gaze from Kenny to her made Lee’s opinion on the matter clear. If they were to live together, it would be a lot easier to bury the hatchet.
Lilly met this man yesterday, but it already felt like she could understand him. Talk to him about a lot of things. Was it because they’ve been (quite literally) staring death in the eyes together? After spending so long planning or preparing for… the end, one would think she would be somewhat prepared for this.
Lilly turned to Kenny, who kept watch at the top of the RV. Next thing she knew, she let him take charge of the situation. And now she owed one to the last per How was she even supposed to go on about this? Something like “I’m sorry I was going to feed your son to these monsters”? This wasn’t gonna end well… but she was supposed to relieve him of his duty anyways.
She took a deep breath. “Here goes nothing. Hey, Kenny.”
As soon as Lilly announced her presence, the father’s very eyes wanted to bury her deep. “For the watch?”
“Listen…” Lilly rubbed the back of her left arm, “First, I wanted to… thank you, for helping me and my father back there… despite the circumstances.”
Kenny raised an eyebrow for a few seconds, before wearing a neutral expression. “It was just the right thing to do.”
“And… you should know I didn’t think he was in the right.”
“Could’ve fooled me.” Kenny replied through gritted teeth.
“We were all in a bad situation, Kenny. You saw what happened after that argument with my dad.”
“Oh!” Kenny laughed bitterly, “So now this is my fault?!”
“It’s not…!” Lilly inhaled and exhaled once more. “Look. Maybe that’s not an excuse but… he’s all I have left, and I’m doing whatever I can to keep him alive. Perhaps you can understand that?”
Kenny opened his mouth to say something else… but nothing came out of it. Instead, he had an almost vacant look on his face.
"Kenny?" Lilly called out to him.
"I… was just thinking of something else. It's not important.”
Lilly could tell it wasn’t true, but now wasn’t the time to ruin her progress with an inappropriate question.
“Well, what are you waiting for?” Kenny reached a hand towards Lilly, “Climb on."
Surprised by the offer, Lilly jumped up and let him help her up. There, she could see the walkers.
“Look at these guys.” He said. “All walkin’ around like they’re not about to fuck over the town. What do you think when you see them?”
“Lee asked me the same question.” Lilly said. “What’s even there to think?”
“I mean…” Kenny said. “When they talk about resurrection… I had a whole different picture in mind. Whatever happened to their souls-”
“Souls? What, you’re religious or something?”
“Born and raised a Christian man.”
“Well, I go back and forth. But religion and hope… Lee has seen the good it did that girl from the other night. It’s best to focus on being alive than relying on these things.
Kenny stayed silent for a few seconds.
“I’m aware this whole thing might be bullshit, Lilly. But where the hell would we be, if there weren’t people who believed in crazy things. Like that a piece of rock could somehow make a fire. Or… I’m sure Lee’s got historical facts for us. Point is, maybe we need to believe in some things to make it through this.”
“Well…” Lilly said. “I'm not in a hurry to find out which of us is right about the afterlife. Let me take over.”
“It’s alright. I think I’ve got another hour in me.”
“Okay… I’ll see you later.”
Lilly hopped down from the vehicle. While she refused to believe there was a golden house on a fluffy cloud with her mother waiting for her… at least they seemed to have worked something out.
Kenny watched the lady get further away from him before resuming his duty. An apology would’ve been nice, but realizing they were in the wrong would have to do for now. Besides… some of what she said wasn't total bullshit. His gaze drifted towards Katjaa and Duck’s room. If nothing else, these things gave him an opportunity to be with them. And he already had blood on his hands… it had to count for something.
Didn’t it?
“Why am I thinking about it all of a sudden?” Kenny muttered.
It probably wasn’t helped by… waking up early again. He had something to do anyway. Disregarding his canned food once more, Kenny picked up the pot and pushed the door open.
“Man…” his back made sure to remind him how old he was. About as soon as he came out, two walkers limped towards him. He briefly pondered over what it must have been like for them. Were they suffering on the inside? Or… was there nothing left? No longer weighed down by such things like age, or fearing for their lives… or being ashamed of anything they do.
Kenny kicked them both... barely staggering them. Another kick... and that was enough to knock down. Pondering on his unusual weakness, he continued on his path. His plans didn’t involve getting his hands dirty… besides, they could probably distract whatever was out there yesterday. He may have imagined it, though.
The former fisherman continued along the treeline to reach the makeshift tomb he had made. Too small of a grave for the pile of bodies he left in his wake, but it would have to be enough at that moment.
"Here, your favorite." Kenny said. “You know I was more of a fan of gifts that last… but what can I say? This world has a hell of a way to make you appreciate what doesn’t.”
He closed his eye.
“I didn’t look back, just like I promised not to. But Clem was right. I didn’t know these people. Or what will happen if this place falls one day. Should I have left her there? Am I even capable of looking after them?”
He tenderly touched the grave.
“Truth be told? I don’t even know what I’m doing here anymore. Do I even belong here? Sometimes… sometimes I catch myself thinking maybe it should have been me. You probably would have been smarter than me about things. You wouldn’t have tried to march people through a blizzard for nothing. You wouldn’t have… been alone.”
Kenny shook his head. "I guess it doesn't matter now. Same time tomorrow?"
Time had come to head back home. All this... somehow lightened the load on his heart somehow. Maybe today he would actually feel like feeding his body. Or better yet, actually grab some sleep. At least, it settled the argument: he truly was in no condition to take care of anybody else. In fact, he was more likely to drag them down with him and get them killed too.
When he pushed the door open, his blood ran cold a cold metal pressed against the back of his head.
“Guess your boat plan didn’t work out?” A woman said.
“The fuck?!” Kenny let out.
“Turn around. Slowly.”
Trying and failing to keep his heartbeat under control, Kenny did as he was told...
"Jesus..." Kenny muttered, as he faced the person he just about wanted to see the least.
Lilly approached with a smirk. “You remember me. Good. This will make things easier. Get inside.”
“The others aren’t with you. So, they’re dead?”
Kenny didn’t respond.
“Even… Clementine?”
Kenny kept quiet.
“Maybe they weren’t meant to live.”
“Just get it over with. We have nothing to talk about.”
Lilly pistol whips Kenny.
“There is the Kenny I know. Hasty as ever. You didn’t think we were gonna rush this, did you?”
“I know Clementine is still out there.”
This prompted Kenny to turn around, with Lilly smirking.
"My god, she IS alive."
“I’ll find her.”
“She will let you near her.”
“I will be the judge of that. You? You’ve got a different problem.”
Kenny grabbed Lilly’s wrist as he slammed her against the wall.
She could be anywhere.
Why? Why did she have to find him? Now, after all this time? It’s
Lilly stabbed Kenny.
He couldn't stop her now.
Again, he let her down. Like everyone else in his life.
He wanted this. He had it coming for so long. Now he was scared. So afraid. Why?
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2023.03.22 16:55 ATobiaMD A further look into: 'Sinister'

Movie: Sinister (2012)
Synopsis: Sinister is a 2012 supernatural horror film chronicling the existential crisis of Ellison Oswalt, a fictional crime author who is trying to resurrect his fledgling career. Following an opening scene that shows an unnamed family being hanged from a tree, we meet the Oswalts who are moving into their new Pennsylvania home. On moving day, they are met by the town sheriff, who after reprimanding his deputy for soliciting an autograph, tries to convince Ellison to load his boxes back onto the moving truck and leave. The sheriff’s warning, a harbinger, serves as foreshadowing of the Oswalt’s fate, as it is learned that the house they are moving into is the former Stevenson home; the scene of the horrific hanging.
It is revealed that the hanging is one in a series of grisly murders carried out by children possessed by Bagul, the “eater of children.” Possessing a realm of his own and traveling into the material world via images of himself (http://villains.wikia.com), Sinister’s boogie man is a pagan Babylonian deity who consumes the souls of children.
How it relates to the field of psychiatry
Sinister allows for review of the Dissociative Disorders if one disavows the theory proposed by Deputy So and So. Simply stated, a family (e.g. Martinez) sells their house, moves into a new home, and then meets their untimely demise (BBQ ’79). The family that sold the victims their house (e.g. DeLuzio) will move into their new home, only to be killed by Bagul (Lawn Work ’86). Upon extension of this pattern, we know that whoever sold their house to the Stevenson family should be the next in line to be murdered. However, [spoiler alert] the movie’s climax reveals that the Oswalts are the next victims. The only way these two facts could be reconciled is if Ellison Oswalt was the seller of the Pennsylvania home (to the Stevenson family).
The pattern presented above is possible if Ellison Oswalt is afflicted with Dissociative Identity Disorder versus Amnesia with Dissociative Fugue. In either case, Ellison would suffer from amnesia, thus explaining how he could move his family into a house he previously owned.
Key Words: Sinister, Bagul, boogie man, sandman, Dissociative Amnesia, Dissociative Fugue
Anthony Tobia, MD. Copyright © 2016 Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School. [email protected] All rights reserved.
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2023.03.22 16:54 Glittering-Oil-4200 Leeching, Visiting JNILs

You do not have permission to share anywhere. First time poster, recent lurker. I have a long history of JNMIL and JNFIL absurdities. My in-laws are emotionally manipulative with DH, cry poor, and don’t understand the concept of overstaying their welcome and personal boundaries. I also FULLY recognize I have a DH problem.
My DH (44m) and I (40f) have been together for 16 years and married for 12. ILs come to visit 3-4 times a year and stay with us for 1-2 weeks. They live several states away and drive by car for 18 hours to visit. Because of the long drive, they always feel they need to stay at least a week to make the trip worth it. They have never offered to get a hotel, as they are extremely cheap, and my husband insists they stay with us anyway due to their fixed income and financial woes (mostly crying poor- their house is currently for sale for over $1million). Years ago, BIL had a SO who was resentful when ILs stayed in BIL and SO’s NYC apartment. BIL’s SO made them feel unwelcome, and DH has sworn that his parents will NEVER feel unwelcome when they visit him/us. Even when we first started dating 15 years ago, when I lived alone in my house and DH lived with roommates in an apartment, he insisted that they stay in MY house with me when visiting. I was very uncomfortable with it, but being young and not fully aware of JNILs, I allowed them to stay with me. He would stay too. Over the years I have tried to put down boundaries as to when and how long they stay, but DH gets upset and mad at me because “they are his PARENTS” and he doesn’t ever want them to feel like they are not allowed to stay.
Currently, we live in a small one-level house with our children, who are 4 and 6. When ILs visit, they sleep in our playroom on a murphy bed, which means all the toys have to be moved out and it makes our packed small house feel even more chaotic. What’s most bothersome, though, is that they are a total energy suck. Their visits drain me physically, mentally, and financially. When they stay, they do not lift a finger to help or offer to buy anything. They do not clean up after themselves (even at meals), do not offer to cook, do not buy groceries (even when we go to the grocery store together- they will put groceries they want in with our order so we pay for it), and do not pay for meals out. They bring a lot of shit (rotting vegetables from their fridge that are going to go bad, 20lbs of grapefruit from their trees), take up a lot of space and are just generally gross. (FIL does not shower when they visit, and after their last visit, I found a full fallen-off toenail in their room). Their own house is dirty and they both have hoarder tendencies.
Before my LO was born, their visits mostly fell on me to plan meals and outings, cook, clean, empty the dishwasher, etc. After LO, I stopped. I silently let it fall on DH to take charge and care for them. I no longer clean up after them, help in the kitchen, empty the dishwasher, etc. and I cook very minimally now when they visit. I have my own two children to care for, I don’t need these leeches. DH is definitely now aware of how laborious it is to have them here, and he is frequently exhausted and grumpy when they come.
Another aspect that drives me crazy is that they sit around all day. DH and I both work full time. While we are at work and kids at school, ILs sit on their ipads or read all day. They do not take the initiative to do anything or go anywhere. They will also harp on what groceries we are low on/out of incessantly, but they will not walk to the grocery store (right up the road) to purchase it. When we are home, they do not take initiative to do anything with the grandkids either and they have never offered to watch the kids so DH and I can go out. Once, when I told them we had made dinner plans with friends on a weekend night, MIL immediately blurted, “but what are WE going to do about dinner?!” I can’t stand the helplessness (a JNMIL’s favorite). The lack of initiative also makes me insane, and I start feeling so claustrophobic in the small house with 6 people, so I end up being the one that plans and initiates family outings with the kids and they tag along. “Let’s go outside!, Let’s walk to the park!” I also utilize our zoo memberships and botanical gardens memberships when they are here.
I am not actively rude when they visit, but I do not engage much. Ever since I was pregnant with my first LO (and they still didn’t lift a finger!) I realized that they don’t really care about me, and I retreat to my room at night because I don’t have the energy to “entertain” in the evening after my kids are in bed. I honestly don’t care if it appears rude, as I think they are extremely rude houseguests. By the end of each night, I’ve had it. My husband frequently brings up that I am “not welcoming” and that they can sense that I don’t want them here. We end up arguing about it for days before and after their visits. Any normal person who picks up on those vibes would cut their visit shorter or stay elsewhere, but they don’t seem to care.
JYBIL and his JYwife live on the opposite coast in a big city and do not have to deal with ILs as much due to distance. ILs are too cheap to fly, big city is too much for ILs, and BIL has much stronger boundaries with his parents. When BIL had his first LO, ILs flew to visit for a week when LO was 2 (pandemic baby). JYBIL and JYwife paid for them to stay in a hotel and did not “host” them at all hours. BIL has said that he also never wants to bring his wife and children to his parents’s house because of the hoarding and filth. Therefore, JYBIL and JYwife have come to our house twice pre-pandemic to visit the ILs. JYBIL now has two children of his own (3 and 2 months). ILs have not yet met the baby. The thought of ILs coming to visit them again is so terrible that JYBIL and JYwife think it’s easier to fly their whole family to our house again and visit the ILs here. JYBIL and family are coming to town in May and staying in an Airbnb for 6 days. IL’s will stay with us. Because JYBIL and family will be here mid-week to mid-week, I know ILs will try to come for two full weeks. I’m already dreading the visit and want to lay down time limits for their stay. However, I know it won’t matter what I say and insist on, as DH is going to allow them to come whenever they want. Besides needing to vent and rant, I’m also seeking advice on how active I should be in this visit. I will be working and kids will be in school for the majority of it. Although I am looking forward to seeing JYBIL and family, I don’t feel as though it is my responsibility to entertain and host everyone. I am not a cruise director, and they are the ones that planned the arrangement to meet the ILs at my house. Any advice, suggestions, or commiserating is welcome.
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2023.03.22 16:54 Present_Armadillo_86 Do Students living with On-Campus Grad Housing sublet their rooms for summers?

Hi, I am a graduate student and have been looking for grad housing during the summers. I wanted to know if people already living in grad housing can sublet their apartments to me during the summers?
TIA
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2023.03.22 16:54 Electronic_Emu_9271 Does a rise in interest rate have potential (side) effects that BOOST the economy?

I understand that a rise in interest rate is supposed to “cool down” the economy: - Borrowing money becomes more expensive to businesses which limits their projects/activities - mortgages become more expensive so people buy less houses - etc.
However I’m not sure about the following: - rising interest rates will lead to people putting more money in their savings accounts (?), leading to more deposits for the bank, meaning this would incentivise them to give out more loans? - if they don’t give out more loans, they would for example invest the deposits into state obligations, which would mean… the state has more money for public works/infrastructure (?)
My main point thus is that as people put their money in savings accounts/bonds because of rising interest rates, there is more money available for institutions to lend/use, thus BOOSTING the economy instead of slowing it down?
Any thoughts on this?
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2023.03.22 16:53 shoddy_boboddy Corporate Marriott WFH

Hi all of my Marriott International peeps! I started my Marriott career with corporate years ago and have taken on positions in sales, front office, and operations. I currently work for a franchise as it seems corporate owned hotels are disappearing. My goal right now is to get a WFH position with corporate but it seems nearly impossible. I have applied for a number of positions over the past year and I get passed over again and again. Could over qualifications be the reason? I’m applying for simple jobs that don’t need much experience. Is that working against me? Does anyone have any insight?
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2023.03.22 16:53 friendlyBrowniee Ramadan the month of Quran

One of the major reasons of the heartbreaking decline of Muslim Ummah, according to the poet of the east Iqbal Sahab, is a complete abandonment of the study of The Noble Quran by Muslims all around the world.
وہ زمانے میں معزز تھے مسلماں ہو کر،
اور تم خوار ہوئے تارک قرآں ہو کر
Translation:
"The honoured of their times, they lived, For their's was true iman, You live disgraced, as having left the paths of Al-Quran."
The copy of the Quran is sitting there in all our houses waiting to be picked up and understood by us who claim to be followers of the greatest man to ever set foot on this planet, Muhammad bin Abdullah (PBUH). The reading of Quran has been reduced to earning Sawab (Good Deeds) by clueless recitation instead of us understanding what the heavenly book is trying to convey, implementing it in our respective lives and preaching its message to other Muslims.
In his famous Iblees ki Majlis-e-Shura, through the character of Iblees, Iqbal speaks of a heart wrenching tale of Muslim fall:
چشم عالم سے رہے پوشیدہ یہ آئیں تو خوب،
یہ غنیمت ہے کہ خود مومن ہے محروم یقیں
ہے یہی بہتر الہیات میں الجھا رہے،
یہ کتاب الله کی تاویلات میں الجھا رہے
Translation:
"Better, if this Law (Islam) be kept hidden from the world's eye: So much the better, the Believer himself is deprived of inner conviction.
Better that he remains busy and entangled in the metaphysical theology: Better, that he remains busy and entangled in the interpretations of the Book of God."
Let us all take advantage of this month of Ramadan and set our boats into the vast and deep ocean of the Noble Quran. May this Ramadan help you witness a glimpse of the greatness of Allah and bring you closer to him.
Ramadan Kareem!
كتب أنزَلَتهُ إِلَيْكَ مُبْرَك لِّيَدَبْرُوا ءَايَتِهِ ، وَلِيَتَذَكَّرَ أُولُوا الْأَلْبَبِ
'This is a blessed Book which We have revealed to you 'O Prophet' so that they may contemplate its verses, and people of reason may be mindful.
(The Noble Quran 38:29)
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2023.03.22 16:53 Ok_Cartographer6328 Need Advice for friend

Attached to friend with said disorder. She’s never been involved with anyone before. She never gave a commitment, and according to her we were “just friends”. But I could tell, and everyone around us could tell there was something going on between us. Her parents, sister, everyone noticed it.
She hardly texted and even ignored texts. But we exchanged snaps daily 2/3 times. And there was some texting at night. And we copied each other’s snaps, I think in a way it was like confessing love for each other.
Got blocked after confessing love directly on text. She gave warning before doing so but I doubled down on the love lol.
6 months later, she came to my house while I was blocked. ( for a family function, as our parents are close) Acted completely normal, and was only interested in spending time with me, and no one else at the party.
That day I could notice the signs of disorganised attachment and dissociation. Snapping at me, look of frozen terror when I was being romantic, laughing like a five year old girl when I was being flirty, zoning out etc. And she was confiding in me like a friend that day.
And before I got blocked and things were normal(relatively lol) she told me her deepest secret, even if it was just in a few words.
She has all the signs of a horrible childhood. After I got blocked I messaged using brothers phone like once a month but no reply. But she saw them. And never pressured her to unblock.
But after she came to my house, I added her to WhatsApp group with just us two, told her she was behaving bad, she left the group. Also told her she can say goodbye anytime, but DIRECTLY. But no goodbye, just left group. I Got brothers phone and told her to stop running away as that won’t solve anything. Then she accused me of harassing her( lashed out and wrote paragraph long texts to my brother about how I don’t respect her etc.) Told her sorry, will never message again. Then she said she will unblock me but to respect her boundaries as friend. Bullshit, as deep down she knows it’s more than that. But I’ll comply.
She’s Still unresponsive after getting unblocked.
My question is, is it better to keep sending texts periodically or to let her isolate completely and wait for her to come to me. I know the relationship is alive, I could feel it when she met me recently.
She’s in a very bad place and I’m ready to wait cause love. Lol.
It’s been 8 months since she initially blocked me. I’m still blocked everywhere except WhatsApp.
This is a very serious level of mental illness, I can tell. Even I’m somewhere along the lines of crazy , that’s why I understand her a little but nowhere near her.
Fine with being just friends as long as I’m there for her. Idk how that will work as it’s weird for a guy and girl to be just friends, specially near marriageable age.
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2023.03.22 16:53 uusaagiitsuukiinoo Kaleidos is discontinuing the Future palettes

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2023.03.22 16:52 Big-Adhesiveness-650 You are named the new executive producer of Takedown, what changes do you make?

I am fascinated with the progression of tone/production of TCAP to HVP to Takedown. I think everyone here probably has an opinion on why the previous iterations were better, but I’m curious how you think the show could improve at this point? (Of course taking into consideration how closely the stings are now being ran by lawr enforcement)
For me, part of where the comedy was found in the previous iterations of the show was how overly-produced these shows were as news segments to be broadcast on television. Chris, the straight-laced professional journalist, using his broadcasting voice to figure out why these guys are here. The predators always felt like fishes out of water when showing up at sting houses that actual felt like they were lived in too.
Here are the main changes I’d make:
Staging/production design: If it weren’t possible to move the stings to bigger houses, I would put more of the funding into staging the houses to seem like real homes. I think this would help for the emersion of the audience, as well as catching the predators off-guard upon arrival. TCAP & HVP also did a better job with camera placement to get the best shots of the predators during the conversations.
Editing/tone: I think the editing & Chris’ approach to these interviews is what could really improve it for me. Chris doesn’t feel like a journalist anymore, but rather a hardened sheriff that kind of just scolds the predators. I’m sure it comes with age & how long he’s been doing this, but it doesn’t make for compelling television in the way most of us enjoy these shows. I would encourage Chris to loosen up & remind him he’s not a cop, but rather a journalist trying to make compelling news stories. I appreciate the graphics/voiceover work from the original series, along with Chris’ talking head bits as well. I think we need more of that & less unedited cell phone footage of the cops working the stings.
I know that it’s a different point in time for both the Chris Hansen we know, as well as how these investigations are done now, so maybe my requests are unreasonable. Would love to hear what you guyyyys have to say!
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2023.03.22 16:52 jolgeir Looking for Raw Audio to edit and build a portfolio

Hey everyone!
I'm currently a Master's student in Audio Engineering and Design. I'm working in-house as a Sound Designer at the moment and have previously worked as an Audio Editor at a dubbing studio.
I'm looking to build a portfolio more towards podcasts, as it is also a big part of my life. I'm looking for raw, unedited footage that I could get my hands on and edit and practice. And I want to be able to use it as a part of my portfolio.
I'm also considering making intro and outro jingles from scratch. So, if you have any need that seems like I could help out, let me know, and I'll do it for free, of course.
Thanks in advance!
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2023.03.22 16:52 Ok_Cartographer6328 Need Advice for friend

Attached to friend with said disorder. She’s never been involved with anyone before. She never gave a commitment, and according to her we were “just friends”. But I could tell, and everyone around us could tell there was something going on between us. Her parents, sister, everyone noticed it.
She hardly texted and even ignored texts. But we exchanged snaps daily 2/3 times. And there was some texting at night. And we copied each other’s snaps, I think in a way it was like confessing love for each other.
Got blocked after confessing love directly on text. She gave warning before doing so but I doubled down on the love lol.
6 months later, she came to my house while I was blocked. ( for a family function, as our parents are close) Acted completely normal, and was only interested in spending time with me, and no one else at the party.
That day I could notice the signs of disorganised attachment and dissociation. Snapping at me, look of frozen terror when I was being romantic, laughing like a five year old girl when I was being flirty, zoning out etc. And she was confiding in me like a friend that day.
And before I got blocked and things were normal(relatively lol) she told me her deepest secret, even if it was just in a few words.
She has all the signs of a horrible childhood. After I got blocked I messaged using brothers phone like once a month but no reply. But she saw them. And never pressured her to unblock.
But after she came to my house, I added her to WhatsApp group with just us two, told her she was behaving bad, she left the group. Also told her she can say goodbye anytime, but DIRECTLY. But no goodbye, just left group. I Got brothers phone and told her to stop running away as that won’t solve anything. Then she accused me of harassing her( lashed out and wrote paragraph long texts to my brother about how I don’t respect her etc.) Told her sorry, will never message again. Then she said she will unblock me but to respect her boundaries as friend. Bullshit, as deep down she knows it’s more than that. But I’ll comply.
She’s Still unresponsive after getting unblocked.
My question is, is it better to keep sending texts periodically or to let her isolate completely and wait for her to come to me. I know the relationship is alive, I could feel it when she met me recently.
She’s in a very bad place and I’m ready to wait cause love. Lol.
It’s been 8 months since she initially blocked me. I’m still blocked everywhere except WhatsApp.
This is a very serious level of mental illness, I can tell. Even I’m somewhere along the lines of crazy , that’s why I understand her a little but nowhere near her.
Fine with being just friends as long as I’m there for her. Idk how that will work as it’s weird for a guy and girl to be just friends, specially near marriageable age.
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